@emilymbender
Do we have a way to prove that other humans are conscious?
There are two problems here that I don't know how to solve. The first is that when I communicate with something that appears to be conscious, if I don't treat it well, that may well be no problem at all for it, but it's a problem for me because I'm training myself to speak to what I perceive as a conscious being in a way that is not kind. This seems like a really bad idea for me personally and also for us culturally.
The second is that I actually genuinely don't know how to tell that something other than me is conscious, and so taking a firm position that any particular thing is not seems unsound.
This is not _at all_ to assert that LLMs are conscious, or that humans are not. I know very well what my gut tells me about this. But "they couldn't possibly be conscious because they are stochastic parrots" is not really very good logic, and I _think_ the premise is unfalsifiable.
This leads me mostly to the same conclusions you are drawing. But approaching it from the agnostic point of view feels safer to me than claiming knowledge that can't be proven, even if it seems very likely.
This isn't like the theory of gravity or the theory of evolution. These have important predictive applications. The theory of "things are not sentient" is mostly applied to making it okay to kill meat animals; applying it here feels awfully convenient.