@Natasha_Jay Whenever I see posts like this I understand the place they come from. It's real. The patriarchal society we live in is abominable.

I am a man who has stood up for women, trans people, and others in the work place, and in casual encounters. Someone who has lost opportunities over it and been the odd one out. it's often thankless and results in being steam rolled. I won't stop trying to help but the entire situation sucks... Though we are rare, there are men who are trying their best