it's always odd to me how the people who usually scream at others for being dependent the most, for having learned helplessness, for not trying, are the first to sell out their creativity, their thinking, their effort, and the ones they said this of, were just having struggles they didn't understand. A few don't bend, but most of those are coming apart at the seams and going I'm fine! Seeing that it is really easy to conclude the reason they accuse people of this is because something inside them desperately just wants to lay down and stop paying attention but they can't so take it out on everyone who seems like they are. That's probably even true. But the way it happens, is probably more than that, and we feel would reveal important information if only we knew it.