@mattly I have gone through this kind of thing with people over other differences before, and it really does suck. I had to hit the ejector seat button for a few friends when they revealed their racism back in 2016 by supporting Trump. Then I lost faith in a bunch more people who took COVID's side during the pandemic (which still ain't over, folks!). I will never get those years back, or get over the loss and suffering those people caused us. When people show you who they are, you gotta pay attention. Some things you don't get to walk back.