New pronouns just dropped! Instead of exclusively using they/them pronouns, I now use he/him as well.

What does that mean: It means you can use both “they” or “he” when talking about me. I prefer if you use both interchangeably, meaning you could use “they” in one sentence and “he” in the next. No worries, I’ll link to some info at the end of the post that should help you with that if you have no prior experience with people using mixed/multiple pronouns. 😊

This also means that if you speak about me in German you can now get away with using “er” for me. Which I’m sure should be a huge relief for all but the most experienced pronoun wranglers amongst you. 😜 Just please remember that I am still nonbinary. I’m still not a man. But you can think of me as man-adjacent if it helps.

And since it seems to need repeating, I am most definitely not a woman and not even adjacent to woman, so please never use she/her for me. There are easier ways to end our friendship/acquaintance/mutuality than misgendering me. 😉

Feel free to ask any (respectful) questions you may still have after reading the info available at these links:
1) https://www.them.us/story/multiple-sets-of-pronouns I especially relate to what Chala Tyson Tshitundu says in this. 

2) https://www.scarymommy.com/parenting/multiple-pronouns-guide-affirm-use

3) https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/how-to-affirm-people-who-use-multiple-sets-of-pronouns

P.S. Pros can check the ALT text on the image for an example of how to use mixed pronouns!