Sandra is nervous about checking herself, so I do it for her.

She and I are different shapes, so I have had to read up on how to do it properly.

It is clearly no hardship for me, but we make a point of it not being a prelude to fun times, precisely because it needs to be done carefully and properly. It is a caring, loving moment, for sure, but explicitly not a sexual one.

I appreciate that not everyone has a partner, or a partner that they would want to do this, but if you do and have any hesitancy about doing it yourself, or just want an additional check, please, consider asking.

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