gay 420jepyang@wandering.shop
Jul 30, 2026, 11:59 PMi don’t want to derail rabbit’s thread by making it about transfem stuff, but i think that kind of casual “all men are trash” talk is *also* a significant roadblock to transfems figuring out our gender. it was for me at least. i spent years atoning for being born with a gender i didn’t even want, and the only way i knew to not be trash was to make myself as small as possible. that doesn’t feel safe for exploring queerness.
gender determinism hurts us all.