In his words, when a whale dies, it creates a whole new ecosystem so that from it new life can continue. And here is served the metaphore. The whole meaning of this misadventure is a representation of getting free from the chains of your own family, while still acknowledging that it is thanks to said family that you’re alive and well.
But it didn’t convince me. You know why? Because in none of these flashbacks did I get shown Jay spending some actual, pleasant time with his father. Getting explained things about the sea isn’t enough, cause so far you depicted the father as something that is so apeshit about the sea he makes his son suffer for his obsession. I wish I could have seen scenes where they did something else entirely. Like, I don’t know, them at an amusement park. Him giving Jay a present for his birthday. Him congratulating Jay for some good results at school. Just anything, anything positive. The only closest thing is him keeping Jay on his arms after being just born, promising his child that he’ll let him choose his life path regardless of what he thinks. Well, then he did not maintain his promise, cause the flashbacks of them two fighting are emotionally very intense: it’s clear that Jay hates the sea and hates his father.
So no, in my opinion the movie did not redeem his father, and Jay had no real reason to sacrifice himself just to find bones of a parent that emotionally abused him. The moral that I got from the story is that family is always something to be thankful for no matter what, and I think of all the things my friends had to endure because of family, I can only say go fuck yourself. Or am I too much of an individualistic, autistic, dragon personality to understand?
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