One of the things about men on the internet who talk about meeting women is that they are a very specific sub-culture of weakly straight men: They are not bi, but rather their whole culture is around relationships between men, not relationships with both men and women.

Yet they generalize this as if all straight men are like them, and all straight women are like the women who will—possibly reluctantly—give them the time of day.

“But it aint necessarily so.”