paulamiserabilist@beige.party
Aug 21, 2026, 7:39 PMlittle monsters.
one was damaging a car and my friends dad told him off, he told his dad he wanted to touch him and got beaten up.
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Kierkethumbs up convincinglyKierkegaanks@beige.partyAug 21, 2026, 7:42 PM@amiserabilist @Elleaster at least we can predict that low income psychopaths end up in prison
- paulamiserabilist@beige.partyAug 21, 2026, 7:47 PM
it is chaos till they are 18.
our jails are overcrowded.
punishing parents for bad kids may help them try to control them.
no one is allowed to touch them.
anecdotally, i think some need spanking.
- Kierkethumbs up convincinglyKierkegaanks@beige.partyAug 21, 2026, 7:48 PM
@amiserabilist @Elleaster cats slap bad behaving kittens around
ozengozeng@aus.socialAug 21, 2026, 11:23 PM@Kierkegaanks @amiserabilist @Elleaster there’s a huge difference in motive and kids know it immediately. It can be a measured response to the child being an asshat, or it can be the parent lashing out in the only way they know how to assert dominance. The former is fine and should be encouraged, the latter is not.
- ozengozeng@aus.socialAug 21, 2026, 11:25 PM
@Kierkegaanks @amiserabilist @Elleaster I was working in a store once and someone’s kids were destroying the place. They just said “oh honey put that down” and went back to ignoring them. I wanted to say “slap your kids or I’ll slap you” but I refrained.
Corporal punishment for shithead parents should be a thing!
- Kierkethumbs up convincinglyKierkegaanks@beige.partyAug 21, 2026, 11:25 PM
@Elleaster @ozeng @amiserabilist i don’t actually think adults should hit children
- ozengozeng@aus.socialAug 21, 2026, 11:47 PM
@Kierkegaanks @Elleaster @amiserabilist fair. I don’t think it should be the first option, but it should be an option. I’ve pushed buttons until (after repeated warnings it was the next option) I got a smack and afterwards was like “yep, I deserved that”. I’ve also been hit in anger.
- ozengozeng@aus.socialAug 21, 2026, 11:59 PM
@Kierkegaanks @Elleaster @amiserabilist also if you can parent effectively without smacks, more power to you!
- paulamiserabilist@beige.partyAug 21, 2026, 7:43 PM
seriously, i told them it was a mistake, you can imagine how bad the rest were.
some made these about me.
(sorry ai)
https://beige.party/@amiserabilist/117117985642926618
sorry to traumatize you again.
Elle O. Vee EeeElleaster@ohai.socialAug 21, 2026, 7:49 PM@amiserabilist
You and those GD images! :ablobcatneon: :partyparrot: :blobcatdance:- paulamiserabilist@beige.partyAug 21, 2026, 8:30 PM
- Elle O. Vee EeeElleaster@ohai.socialAug 21, 2026, 8:33 PM
@amiserabilist
My folks loved me and I had a good upraising, that's just what you did back then for a lot of people. Dumb. @Kierkegaanks 
glasspshrglasspusher@beige.partyAug 22, 2026, 12:46 AM@Elleaster @amiserabilist @Kierkegaanks
The rare times I got smacked as a kid I deserved it 5 times more, the times I smacked my kid when raising her I can count on one hand with fingers to spare