@davidrevoy Aww, yeah, adults take a lot of patience and a slightly different strategy. They can be done (I've made friends with three already), but sometimes they simply won't. I wouldn't give up on her yet, especially since she's still coming to feed, but she definitely plays by her own rules.

It took a few months to be able to touch the little man; I had a "safe zone" on top of our cat house where he was fed and very slowly acclimated to touch. It took another year for him to feel 100% safe.