@Pepijn @gabe @deborahh @mrtnsnp if all you wanted to do was basically kvetch that someone was rude to you, go forth. But you asked for psychology researchers to give you a pov about how these procedures are expected to work and I've done so. It's not insulting to say that people's recollections of social interactions often drift over time, it's robustly empirically known. If you weren't ACTUALLY interested in a discussion about psych don't ask for one.