I was basically "I don't feel comfortable with this person in this space and this is why."

I didn't get you banished, hon. Do you know what did? A half-assed faux-apology and the doubling down when that didn't work.

all you had to do was give a real apology and reflection. if you'd just did that, because it was old shit and people do learn and grow, I would've shrugged and moved accordingly.

"ancient shit," right? and yet you haven't seemed to learn a damn thing since then.

but yeah, my not wanting to share space or projects with a potential racist and bringing that up is the problem! /s

and people wonder why BIPOC folx are scarce in queer spaces.

also: "just block and move on!" doesn't work when the missing stair is still there. or some shit. the whole point in communities is to speak up. What's important here is that I felt like I could. do you know how rare that is? VERY.

that's all i'm sayin', do what you need to do with this info re: following/being moots w/ me.