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  • Jun 4, 2026, 1:02 PM

    @SomeVeganCheeseIsOk @leeloo Even if something isn't meant as a gotcha question, if it looks identical to a gotcha question, it does harm in the same way as a gotcha question.

    Subjecting victims to microagressions might not be intentional, but it is still something that should be called out.

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  • Jun 4, 2026, 1:08 PM

    @ahltorp @leeloo I struggle to see the harm in questions. You are ALWAYS free to ignore them. And that's fine! Actively attacking people asking questions seems to me to do a LOT more harm, overall. It's a terrible thing, to attack people for asking questions. If someone is a troll, ignoring them is far more frustrating to them than being yelled at.

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  • Jun 4, 2026, 1:56 PM

    @ahltorp ....do you not know how to use the block and report buttons?

    "It is ok to preemptively bully people who ask questions I think are in bad faith" is how you end up bullying a LOT of people asking questions in good faith. The main outcome is that you become a bully with a shitty justification for your desperate need to feel like you did something.

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