@paulschoe @josh @screwturn Me too! I wonder if placing the hashtags in the end (as some people recommend) would have reduced this issue a bit.

I should ask my wife what she would choose. Although I would be surprised if she choose anything but what I chose because I guess this pool answers are a lot biased as kindness is what most people would expect from any human interaction (partner or otherwise). Remove kindness from the options and the results would be more interesting.