Just seen an advice to avoid wording orders and requests as questions (like "Would you like to join us in a meeting?" when the real meaning is "I need you to join us in that meeting") as an advice for communicating with #ActuallyAutistic people, but... isn't it just a sensible advice for communicating with all people?
It's not polite to disguise an order as a question where "no" is a possible answer, it's just misleading and counterproductive.