@frykitty@craftgoblin.club Honestly, don't assume that a woman doctor is going to be any better. Some of them are, some of them are fantastic, but they still were educated in a system designed by and centers cis-men. They have to fight like hell to make it out of that bullshit without internalizing the sexism inherent in the system. Make sure you have a rapport with any doctor before admitting things like stress.

A great litmus test? If you're overweight, do they immediately tell you to lose weight to see if that makes the problem go away? If so, congrats, they've got the internalized medical sexism.