look I come from a local community wherein all the traditional "pillars" of the community are dying. There isnt a single long-standing queer organization that is operating in a way that people feel good about. Whether it be pride boards that pay winners of the awards gala but make losers pay for their ticket, or the queer students organization that has institutionalized racism and labour extraction. The traditional community in my area is dying.

And new things are popping up around them of course. But ultimately, we are talking about core infrastructure to the survival of our community and every single one of them is being run by skeezy sketchy white people and people who are so stuck in their need to get theirs that they cannot see past their own nose.