three days in (after lobsters mods caved to the langlemangle bros): I had left the IRC channel and purged the site out of my browser history, and honestly I haven't been reflexively reaching for it like I thought I would

couple times I've opened a new tab, typed "lo" and saw that it completed to "localhost" and then thought, "oh right" and went back to whatever I was doing

so I'm spending more time in chat and focusing on communities what do value solidarity; overall a win