when the day comes, way down the line, when I end up saying “well, yep, I really wish I just had a database I could use for this”, that’s the day I can start to sit and re-evaluate how I feel about the current state of relational database technologies and SQL and noSQL and others and then decide what I want my database to look like and feel like and provide for the stuff I want to do with the ecosystem I’ve built to that point in mind and proceed from there.
it’s my personal computer. it only has to comply with exactly as many standards as I say, but it has a whole world of standards to choose to implement should I decide I want that functionality. it doesn’t have to be as overwhelming as it may seem at the first thought of “wait build a personal computer and operating system?”