I don't think I will ever not tense up with anxiety any time I ever HAVE to take care of some financial change that I didn't initiate... like a credit card transferring to a new app because the old one was discontinuing...
The part of my brain that screams "SCAM" will never shut up.
@JulieSqveakaroo to be honest i think it's a part of the brain that will never not be needed. it could learn some tact tho.
I am fine with the alert... it's the degree that the alert raises my blood pressure, tenses up my neck and shoulders, and makes me start to see my heartbeat pulsing in my vision...
The alert should be FAR more passive and manageable.
@JulieSqveakaroo thoughtfully suggesting rather than panicing and screaming.