OK, some personal dysphoria and dissociation talk about genitals. Be forewarned. I don't normally talk about this stuff but here's one of the rare moments...

I've been rereading The Sisters of Dorley series. In this book/story series there are regular references to cis men centering their sense of self and masculinity in their... Well, their balls/testicles, to be blunt.

The subject comes up a lot. If you've read the series, you'll know why.