i think the thing im realising about technology is that the thing i care about more than anything else is:
i want to be able to hack (as in easily tinker, bodge, customise, not bypass security) on my own computer.
programs used to have plugin & scripting functionality, macOS still has AppleScript, but more apps are dropping support or never had support in the first place
programming languages become more strict & built for massive programs where stability is required. Objective-C was massively dynamic and let you 'swizzle' things but it's replaced with languages like Swift where runtime patching becomes impossible, and WinForms or Storyboards get depreciated because there are Better™ options. I don't want better. I want 'just stick a few text fields & buttons on a window' and be done with it in 5 minutes.
and no, being open source DOES NOT account for this. (an often times makes the situation worse)