@rmondello I understand I'm probably asking a lot for you to even read my wall of text (I could probably have summarised this a lot better than I have) and like. Thinking about this can be very draining (trust me this line of thinking is most definitely not helping my burn out), I don't say all this to be a hater or devalue the work done by the people at FIDO, or anywhere - even with its current flaws it's a great option that I do with I could champion more

but god. I kinda hate the hole we've dug ourself, and I wish we all (ie. everyone who builds software for a company) were willing to be a bit more proactive in trying to prevent that