And the queer hacker/chaos culture in particular, has inherited all of the original gender biases from its "upstream", with very little success at freeing itself from those.¹
I've been in hacker spaces where I was the most feminine person in the room, which is sad. But as a nonbinary person, I've also been in queer hacker spaces where I felt like the most masculine person in the room, which is a painful demonstration of our own lack of diversity.