So, a friend just blocked me on Discord, and removed me from the friend group group chat.
I haven't been on in a few days, last time we spoke seemed pleasant enough.
This has put me into social pain, since I don't know what I did wrong. I have no telemetry, I can't apologize meaningfully or improve myself.
This is the second time someone who claimed they loved me, just blocked me and left me in the cold with no information.
Don't do this to people please. Social rejection is one of the strongest social pain signals you can send. We are neurologically wired to interpret being shunned as extremely painful as a part of our pro-social wiring. It's all i can do to dig my metaphorical fingers in and not fall down a black hole of "maybe I'm a bad person and nobody wants to be around me".
Don't feel the same way about me anymore? Am i a massive tormenting piece of shit? Found someone who you love more? Yeah, i might not take it well.. but its SOMETHING.