@pawpower @startrek2025 I mean, yeah, I am too, and it doesn't mean my parents allowed me to do that either. His stemming is not what I'm worried about, it is literally his fits that consist of him screaming, kicking the wall, stomping on the floor so hard popcorn ceiling comes down from our own ceiling. And all they say are like, "Oh well we're trying to calm him down, we don't know why he went off." Probably because, you told him no. no is a bad word. It means you can't have the thing you want. And the shit thing is, his Father used to just give in, literally.