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  • Oct 21, 2026, 11:27 PM

    Pay attention to the ableism being thrown around with respect to Christina Applegate finding out she doesn’t have MS.

    People acting like it’s a relief or a blessing.

    Like she’s “better off now”.

    She’s still sick.

    She’s just sick without answers.

    I guarantee it’s not a “relief” for her.

    Seeing so many people talk about how “lucky” she is shows two things:

    1) People are inherently ableist and can’t accept that disabled people aren’t “less than” just because they’re sick.

    2) Having a misdiagnosis doesn’t make you well. It means you’re starting over from scratch.

    In many ways having a firm diagnosis is better because it offers closure.

    It provides validation.

    It may open the door to treatment options.

    It helps people “believe” that you’re sick.

    When doctors say they “don’t know” what’s wrong… many folks will psychologize you.

    They will decide it’s all in your head and you were never really “that sick” to begin with.

    Listen to the patient, not the diagnosis.

    Christina has said she’s getting worse.

    It’s devastating to have to start over because your medical team got it wrong.

    She deserves better. We all do.

    #chronicillness #disability #ableism #christinaapplegate #ms

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  • Oct 22, 2026, 3:56 AM

    @broadwaybabyto Some folks don’t want to accept it, but using the term “abelism” immediately closes minds.

    Sorry, but it’s a red flag indicating that - no matter how allied you are with the cause - you’re about to be on the receiving end of a self-righteous monologue.

    And that wins no listener’s support from having heard a good argument, it just makes the speaker feel a bit more superior.

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  • Oct 22, 2026, 1:24 PM

    @Ponsonby_Britt @broadwaybabyto

    Prioritising the listener’s ego over the speaker’s own lived experience with discrimination is quite literally ableism though.

    I don’t think anyone has a right to claim that disability activists have some sort of superiority complex, when they themselves so openly act entitled to not having THEIR comfort, THEIR worldview, THEIR illusion of moral righteousness questioned.

    If simply naming the biases evident in someone’s behaviour is enough to make said person close off, that’s a them problem. Disabled people don’t owe anyone the emotional labour of soothing their feelings over their own safety and welfare.

    And if any so-called “ally” expects that of them, then they’re almost certainly only in it for themselves so they can get a standing ovation for doing the bare minimum. True solidarity is uncomfortable, messy and humbling, and it’s not up to disabled people to coddle those who can’t (or won’t) put in the work to meet disabled people where they’re at.

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