@GoWestEh @benroyce Why does it matter to you what people identify as?

My friend's child was born female, but as they approached puberty, identified as a male, and asked to be called by a traditionally male name.

Which is no different than someone saying "Don't call me Charles, my friends call me 'Chuck'."

How does someone asking you to use a different name affect you?

How does their choice of bathroom affect you?

How does their choice of clothing affect you?

How does their choice to take medication that helps them transition affect you?

The answer to all of those, for me at least, is "Not at all". None of those things have any impact or practical effect on my life. What is the affect on yours?

So, a friend just had an Interac transfer stolen from their eMail account. Not a lot of money, and police are involved, but a pain in the ass nonetheless.

1) Make your security question something that cannot be easily guessed or looked up. In fact, make it impossible... make the question "What is the password?"

2) Deliver the password via a DIFFERENT communications method -- if you sent the transfer via eMail, use Signal, RCS, iMessage, etc.

3) Secure your eMail address with 2FA.