I would really like to know if my mum could have got this apology if she was still alive. I am feeling quite distressed that I don't know how to find out.
I was not adopted, but my sibling was. I have almost no information about what actually happened at the time. My sibling may have been told something that would help. They traced our family decades later. I don't wish to ask them because they have not discussed with me any thoughts of this being a forced adoption and I don't want to upset them.
I believe it was forced because of how distressed my mum had been and knowing she was most likely autistic so there were many other ways this could have been even more cruel than anyone knew then.
I did try emailing a charity to ask but I've been waiting a long time for a reply. I don't know what I can do.
Does anyone have any ideas?