What is kindness in one situation can turn out to be enabling when it shows up in a different situation.

You gotta be kind & uplifting to people who are struggling to love themselves.

But some people love themselves just fine & what they need is to acknowledge that sometimes they are in the wrong.

Sometimes you may think someone is in the first group, but they really aren't. They aren't upset because they hate themselves for making a mistake. They are upset because they are having a problem.