There is no correct way to "write women", because there is no uniform group called "women".

Our bodies are different. Our experiences are different. Our general feelings about ourselves are different.

The thing that male authors often fail at is not that they fail to get inside the "mind of a woman". It's that they fail to remember that women also have interiority & thoughts & feelings specific to themselves. It's not "misunderstanding women's minds". It's forgetting that women's minds exist.