I think I just lit a stick of dynamite.
Yesterday, when my ex picked up the kids, I decided to leave just as she was leaving, maybe 30 seconds behind, and she didn't notice.
As I was walking past her car to the shops, her boyfriend was sitting in the front passenger seat. We locked eyes, and he looked mega guilty.
I just wanted to wave goodbye to my kids, and a dude who refuses to meet me is in the car.
I messaged my ex saying this is red flag territory, and he's had long enough to "man the fuck up and meet me".
I've said, in no uncertain terms: he's not allowed around my kids any more