"we shouldn't have rules because I don't know how to enforce them" is the most common shit take these days. it's exhausting listening to these people argue for their own extinction.
the thing that will one day cause me to take this server down will be the ceaseless onslaught of dimwits who will not rest until every activitypub frontend is a 1:1 clone of some corporate hellscape product line they got addicted to and cannot stop pining for