Refusal to embrace accountability is often buried in lots of flowery language, but it’s simple:

It’s the assertion that putting an abusive person through anything close to what the victims experienced is a bridge too far.

It’s the assertion what victims go through is acceptable, and not only that, they haven’t suffered enough. Meanwhile, the perpetrators get handled with soft gloves, even if this keeps the harm to victims going.

It’s the acceptance of a world in which the characteristics you were born with, not your actions, determine whether everyone looks away when someone hurts you.